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Reply to "Feeling friendless and unlovable. I am always the initiator. I feel sad."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I totally see where you’re coming from and why you feel the way you do. It can feel unfair if you’re doing all the planning work and that’s not something you enjoy. (Or don’t enjoy enough relative to how much you do…) But as others have said, there’s also a very positive way to spin your situation. I saw a study a few years back that said all networks of social connections tend to be shaped around just a few people who serve as the “hubs” and have a disproportionate number of connections. It sounds like you’re the hub for your friends and family, making the connections happen. As long as it doesn’t reach that level where you feel burned out and/or taken advantage of, it’s at least as likely that everyone appreciates you greatly as it is the opposite. [/quote]
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