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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op again- the friend issue is easily identifiable if he reads this so I don’t want to give as much detail, but basically was a close friends surprising and verbally aggressive attack toward me for feeling slighted from an event. Both my husband and I were at fault for the perceived slight, but the friend chose me to attack and my husband threw me under the bus and let me take the heat. He was present when it occurred. [/quote]

OP you need to go to a therapist and explore whether you have borderline personality. “Getting attacked for feeling slighted at an event then attacking my DH for not defending me from the attack” is classic. [/quote]

Op- I just reread what I wrote and agree it is confusing to readers. The situation that occurred was that the friend felt slighted by my husband and I about an event we were hosting. The friend then suddenly and surprisingly verbally attacked us (mostly me) and my husband retreated, i assertively stood up for us in the moment, and then my husband criticized me at home in private for defending us. [/quote]
Define “verbally attacked” for the class. This friend raised his voice, cursed, said cruel and nasty things unprovoked etc. about a slight by close friends? Did you guys leave immediately after this attack?[/quote]

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