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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been in relationships with younger women for about 15 years now.  I'm dating a woman now who is 18 years younger than me.

-Do you go out in public on dates? 
Absolutely.  And younger women love to go out, dancing, bar hopping, etc.  I love to be seen with her.

-Do your friends and family know about her? 
Of course they do.  Why not?  Are you implying that I should keep her hidden?

-Do you see a long-term relationship or marriage happening?
I had a long-term, 10 year relationship with my last GF who was 14 years younger.  We were talking marriage but she passed.  My current relationship is too new to answer that question,

-Is it just to get through to the next “real” relationship? 
Again, the implications in your question.  Why would it not be a "real" relationship?

-What do you have to talk about?
Everything and anything although I will limit my discussions to things I know she will be aware of and not common knowledge of things before she was born.  But I will kind of mansplain those times if I really want to talk about something from those years.  Definitely, some of my musical interests include bands she has never heard of but that also makes it intersting.[/quote]

Honestly, what’s your annual income and net worth ? [/quote]I drive a 12 year old Toyota, live in a very modest house I own, not high income at all or anything that shows signs of wealth except one very expensive hobby that I don't even mention for a while.  Again, I like your implication that a younger woman only wants me for my money, or perceived wealth but you've failed at it.  I will readily admit, as I've gotten older, the pool of women who are willing to date a man 12-20 years younger than me (the range I like) is small, but they are definitely out there and I've learned how to find them.  The ratio of available women to men in this area is very favorable to men in general so I believe that does make it easier than most other places in the country.  If I chose to date within my age range, or maybe just 5-10 years younger I could line up 3 dates a week for the rest of the year.  But, no thanks.  I will date women in that range, but it's a rare exception.[/quote]

As a woman in my 40s I had just the same experience with lining up 2-3 dates a week with men within 5-10 years of my age. I do date a younger man now, but not because of his age bit sexual appeal and intelligence. He’s very highly educated and well travelled. He never dated an older woman before. I don’t date late 50s, they look unsexy to me. I do think it’s a matter of looks more than age.

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