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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wasn’t able to truly move-out, year-round until age 23. My childhood home & family were beautiful from the outside, and I thankfully had my material needs met, but my household was SO TOXIC. [/quote] Duh! If household is toxic, or the family culture is that AC are supposed to leave the nest when they are 18, or AC are charged rent, or AC are made to feel as if they are living on parent's charity and that the house is not theirs - of course they will want to leave. When your AC live with you, they also have an independent life and they are adults. They need to have some say in how they live their lives, how they can entertain at home, what possessions can they keep. It has to be a culture of mutual respect. Privacy, respect, boundaries, cooperation and communication...all has to be followed. [/quote]
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