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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What percentage of the housework do you do?[/quote]

Trash, Toilets (every night), Showers (not every night), floors (most nights), dishes (if she doesn't do them first), putting kids to bed (every night),

She does most but I have been trying to do more. This is going on 6 months now of I think of me doing well. But I'll have to ask her about that and I don't like asking her about that because either she says I'm "seeking approval" or she comes back and quickly criticizes my job, but I think 6 months is a good time to see a review. [/quote]

This is weird.  Don’t ask her for a 6 month review.  This is your house, and these are your kids too.  If you feel like it’s clean enough or bedtime is going well, then do it your way.  If she criticizes it, stand up for yourself.  You are a competent human being who can figure out a good way to put the children to bed.  Standing up for yourself might cause a small argument short term, but she will feel a lot less resentful and distant from you in the long term.  No one wants to feel like they are the only adult in the house.  When women get married, they want the man they married into to be a life partner.  [/quote]

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