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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you are right that this family is dysfunctional. One sibling is trying to take money from her siblings to keep what she feels she is owed. The other siblings are trying to keep what little was left to them in the name of "fairness". These people need to hash it all out honestly. DD1 wants to be able to keep the house. Why doesn't she just say that? Something along the liens of "I've been living here with mom for 10 years and taking care of her for the last 2. I can sell this house to pay the debts, but I would really prefer to not have to move. How can we come to some sort of agreement that keeps me living here?" Siblings can either come to an agreement or they can say "Sorry sis, you knew this was coming. Sell the house." In any case DD1 really needs to talk to an attorney to figure this out and see what her options are. [/quote] This. It's mess OP, and your dh may have angry feelings for a while. I'm the pp that advised he help his sister, but now even she sounds manipulative, with the whole car situation. Whatever your dh does, he should not put any money into the estate or into the car. Sister is the executor, and it sounds like she needs a lawyer or a legal aid attorney to work this out. [/quote]
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