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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not do the empty "let's make plans" thing. Just be friendly and cordial and try to keep the interaction as quick as possible![/quote]

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As I said in the OP, I do NOT plan on using that spiel, but I have no clue what to say. Everything feels awkward. I admit I’m still a little hurt so that’s clouding my logic and reason. [/quote]

“Hi, it’s good to see how. How have you been?” How is this not a totally nice way to greet someone that doesn’t lead to false plans or whatever?

You seriously have “no clue what to say,” or is it that you have “no clue what to say that would let her know how rude I think she is and how hurt I am, so that she can make it right”?[/quote]

This is the best line.
Who knows what she had going on in her life but when I've let friends down it was generally when someone was dying or died unexpectedly. With my parent's drawn out demise I just lost energy to explain it and retreated inward instead of reaching out. Not proud of it but it was a lot of work handling that physically and emotionally plus parenting and I didn't have anything left for all but one friend who I've known forever and could just cry with.[/quote]

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