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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife seems to love her life, and kids. Even me! She’s a SAHM, has been since our kids were young (notwithstanding an advanced degree). I make enough that she’ll never have to work, but fine with me if she wanted to (she doesn’t). She volunteers, works out, has time for her friends and to care for elderly relatives. She manages the day to day at home but we have a nanny and housekeeper, so she doesn’t have to do any grunt work. Most of her “job” domestically is managing the kids’ activities and planning things like vacations and home improvement. I’m very happy with her, she’s fantastic… but she’s got a pretty good thing going from my perspective. I’m sure someone will tell me I’m oppressing her or ask what happens to her when I leave her for a teenager or something. (So negative around here.) Not ever going to happen though. We are blessed. [/quote] That’s a great and fair arrangement for both of you. I bet if she was working making the same as you make, AND managed everything at home as PPs/career women describe, she wouldn’t be as happily married. You would be resenting each other, no good sex life and a warm welcoming house [/quote]
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