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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So if your mother's worst transgressions have been calling you afterwards to talk trash, how does your MIL know they don't like them? [/quote] OP here. Rolling her eyes at them, walking away from them, refusing to say hi or sit near them.[/quote] I’d uninvited your mother to any future events and tell her why. Tell her you’ll reevaluate in a year. And that you will be honest with your kid about why she is not there. “Grandma could not be nice to Nana so she is not welcome to come until she learns to be kind”. [/quote] Agree. OP this behavior from your parents is completely unreasonable and unacceptable. Yes, uninvite them to the upcoming event and take a break from inviting them for a couple of months. Apologize to your MIL. After a reasonable break period, invite one set of grandparents only per event until something major like a high school graduation.[/quote]
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