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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Remember, a child with ADHD is delayed about 3 years in maturity level.  She will learn to do everything on her own - but it will be later.  [/quote]

100%.  I "dressed" my ADHD daughter while we chatted and took her through the same routine every morning until 4th grade.  She began to take over most of the steps and is now completely independent though still might need a gentle reminder to brush her teeth or remember her computer charger.

She is now, an 8th grader,  a straight A student, super creative and an overall good kid with a healthy self esteem.  And we have a close relationship.

Parents - your young ADHD kids are not trying to torture you or make you late on purpose.  Have a little compassion and ignore the type A super moms who have it all wired.  You have a different kid - be patient and loving and do what works until your kid is mature enough to take on these habits.

As a side note, my oldest son is also ADHD and we shamed him (unintentionally) and nagged him, and guess what - it didn't click for him until 8th grade either.  And he still has self esteem issues around organization.  (And was an angry teenager) I wish we had been more patient with him.[/quote]

Thank you. My doctor said not to dress her and that we were enabling her. Honestly I just want to cry. My other kid is SN (entirely other issues) and I just am at the end of my rope with the two of them. [/quote]

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