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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don’t want to be with SIL why are you pretending it’s about the rooms?[/quote]

We would stay with them if the rooms were suitable. The difficulty is that explaining we don’t want our nephew unsupervised with our kids would kick off a huge and unnecessary family drama— we don’t care if he’s medicated/in therapy/doing sports, we aren’t risking our kids safety and it’s not up for discussion. 
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So then why do you want them to ask for your input on the house if you never intend to stay there?  [/quote]

Because if it’s something that really matters to them we could do it for a couple of days with the right accommodations. [/quote]

Then, again some more--and how interesting that you haven't addressed this point--why don't you get on the stick and *proactively* send them links to places that would work for you, dates that would work for you, and an offer to pay your share if the houses that work for you are out their budget.[/quote]

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