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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm back.

To answer a few questions:

He's only met my sister twice - at Christmas and we did a double date with her husband last month. So no, he does not know here that well, but he does know that we are close. My sister and I have taken a lot of trips together over the years, so we are compatible traveling partners. She's a blast to travel with.

The new BF? IDK if he is fun to travel with. Traveling with BFs reveals a lot about someone and at 6 months, I'm not ready to take a trip to Japan with him. A long weekend trip to New York, sure. But Japan, no! Not yet anyway.

My sister and her husband paid for this trip already. I'm paying a couple hundred bucks to my sister for the airline fees. They are pretty well-off with no children. Some of these hotels were paid for in points by my sister.

I told my sister what my BF's reaction to this trip was - about how he wanted to tag along and she couldn't believe he had the balls to crash her vacation to Japan (which he has no interest in seeing!) - she laughed and said his reaction is a huge red flag.

Yes, he is both upset and sad at this. He is still acting mopey and moody today (well, over text, I haven't seen him today).

I am 35 and my sister is 40. BF is 40 as well. I do enjoy spending time with him but as these 6 months have went on, I have noticed him being mopey whenever he doesn't get his way, which is annoying. [/quote]

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