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Reply to "Boyfriend is upset/sad that I am taking a bucket list trip with my sister"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If this was his very first initial thought, maybe give it a couple days to see if he comes around. I can see myself being caught off guard and feeling jealous and initially saying things without thinking them through. If he has been pouting for a week, dump him. He sounds controlling and whiney. [b] His only understandable complaint is that you won’t have much PTO to take a trip with him. Maybe you can go somewhere for a long weekend or take a day or two unpaid or work out some other way to get away with him. But given his selfish reaction (totally unreasonable for him to expect to join you!) it sounds like he is not worth the effort[/b]. [/quote] No he's not made any serious commitment to op. If he wanted to have a trip he should have asked and planned with her. He didn't. He's a big ol man baby with controlling and manipulative tendencies. There have probably been other warning signs but this is a huge one and op needs to heed it[/quote]
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