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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The OP is looking for the easy way out.  He needs to man up and address the problem by either fixing himself and the marriage, or file for divorce.  Both are hard and he doesn't want to do the work. He just thinks he can put a band aid on the problem by having an affair.  That is definitely not the solution and is the least honorable thing he could do.[/quote]

Let's see, his choices are:
A. Work on relationship and hope it recovers.
B. Divorce and ruin family
C. Cheat, and move to Option B only if found out.

C doesn't seem that bad.[/quote]

What is bad about C, it that you lose all integrity, if that is something you care about.  And yes, divorce is hard on kids.  But to find out you dad was screwing around on their mom?  That is something they will hold against him forever.  And possibly take into their own future relationships in terms of trusting others.[/quote]

C also seems to destroy relationships with the kids.  Even if the exwife says nothing to the kids they tend to find out somehow.[/quote]

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