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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to be friends with you so we can do a whole montage scene at Nieman Marcus.

You’ll shake your head and roll your eyes as the saleswoman and I bring you things, walking on sunshine will be playing, next scene shows me and the saleswoman utterly exhausted with defeat on our faces, clothes are piled everywhere; you pull back the curtain; the camera rises up from patent black stilettos, then beautiful legs, then an lbd, passing gorgeous cleavage to finally reveal your incredible face which we can finally now see because you’re not wearing your glasses.

The guy you’ve been pining for finally notices you and you start seeing him, it goes on for a while but you realize that he isn’t what you really wanted and you break up. A month later you realize that it’s me, your friend for 10 years, that you’re really in love with, we finally kiss and realize we’re all we ever needed in this world.

You give all your new clothes and shoes to your hilarious fun slutty roommate, get your new balance walking shoes out of the back of your closet, Apple Watch, flannel shirt and turtleneck are back on your body where they belong. We open a bed and breakfast In Portsmouth NH and live happily ever after. [/quote]

10/10 would read that book, also watch that movie. Who are we casting in these roles?[/quote]

She’s gotta be a brunette, Leighton Meester or Nina Dobrev
Him- Liam Hemswoth looks like he could work in accounting.

I’m open to noted but I’m not giving up Final Cut! 
I’ll need a driver and one for my assistant. 
Raw bar craft services and my personal trainer needs a trailer on set. [/quote]

Leighton Meester with no makeup could work! And - hear me out - maybe Patti Harrison as the best friend who tries to glam up her plain friend and is secretly in love with her just as she is. (I LOVED Patti Harrison in Together, Together).[/quote]

I have no idea on the casting, but this is seriously a movie that needs to be made!

OP, as an anecdote since my style (outdoorsy, comfortable) is similar to how yours sounds: in my twenties I had a couple friends who had fun dressing me up to go out to bars and parties. They did my hair, makeup, clothes. I got asked out on a bunch of dates by guys I met dressed up that way. Guess what? None of those dates panned out. Either the guys were shallow and attracted just because of my "looks" and I wasn't interested in their personalities, or if we went out a few times, I eventually would just be myself and they seemed to lose interest. The attention was fun for a short while, since I had been used to being invisible, but ultimately I found that clubs like a hiking club and classes like rock climbing were where I found guys who had similar interests and appreciated a low maintenance date, eventually girlfriend, and with the one lucky one, spouse.

Work with a dermatologist on the acne. Work on your self esteem. Develop interests. Consider taking a class so you have something interesting going on since most non accountants will think that accounting is a boring topic of conversation. Read the newspaper. Stop thinking about dating and just focus on being around good people having fun. [/quote]

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