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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think how you dress is fine for the most part, and you seem adamant about not wanting to change your style, which is fine. I do find it interesting that you're shopping at places mostly frequented by women in their late 30s and above. If you enjoy comfortable, outdoorsy clothes, I would suggest branching out to brands like Patagonia and Lululemon, which are still athleisure but more fashionable and popular among women your age.

Also, if you have a beautiful face and a fit body, men would still be drawn to you in spite of your understated style. But if you're average-looking, you would have to put in more effort to get male attention. Again, it depends on how much attention you actually want.[/quote]

Agree with Patagonia. Also Columbia. I’m a huge REI fan and their membership has paid for itself for me in free returns.

There’s a difference between “pretty”/femme presenting and “polished”. Think about how you can polish up your appearance with the same style — is your hair usually air dry? Try a straightener or a curler to smooth it out, but keep the style you like (I’m getting “outdoorsy”). Try a fashion vest over the turtleneck (I got one from REI - slightly fitted but keeps me nice and cozy). Think about where you like the loose jeans - they start to look polished if they’re on the crisper side, a color other than medium wash denim, and belted. A belt can elevate  an outfit from “teenager” to “working professional”  Tuck in the shirt and and you’re getting towards 2022 fashion trends.

Also thoughts on boots? Not fashion booties, but something like Sorel or Merril that has a solid black or brown above the ankle boot. That will also kick an outfit up a polish level. [/quote]

OP here. I love blundstones but the price is steep imo. Am considering them.[/quote]

Heh I love my Blundstones but I'm not sure that wearing them improves your hotness in any way that would matter to the opposite sex. I think other women would notice them and think you're either fashionable or practical - I don't think men are paying attention to the brand of your flat practical booties.

To my mind they are worth the price, that said. They really are comfortable, versatile boots.[/quote]

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