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Stop wallowing in self pity, it is unbecoming and absolutely no good.  You keep getting kicked because you are an enabler and then say, "Woe is me."  Yes, you chose to have sex without protection and you took a gamble re pregnancy.  Smart women get married before having children and then if their husbands leave, it is easy for them to get child suppet child support.  It is also easy for you to receive child support, prove he is the father, and go to court.  Learn to say "no" and mean it and this crap will stop happening to you.

You are an enabler and you love feeling sorry for yourself and you will keep doing these things over and over and over.[/quote]

Meh, plenty of divorced women who know there their child's father is can't collect child support. It happens.

But I agree with the rest of what you posted about wallowing in self- pity and not being able to say "no".

OP - I have siblings, several of them, but I do put my family first and make decisions for us first.  If my sibling just got out of jail, showed up at my house, and asked for my car my answer would have been "no ... but I am happy to help you out with a bus schedule, the number for a taxi, or you can borrow my cell right here to make a call to a friend to pick you up" If he didn't like those answers, then too bad for him.

Also, stop putting your efforts into tagging photos and comments on FB. That's just very juvenile behavior and doesn't do anything to actually help your situation or make anything better for you or your son.  A better use of time - if you really want the car fixed - call around for various estimates, find a lower cost body shop, see if one of those dent repair services can fix it as opposed to a body shop, etc. [/quote]

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