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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I never cheated on my spouse, but now that I’m divorced I have a totally different perspective on it. I have been sleeping  with a married man. He’s miserable in his marriage, where I used to be. I get where he’s at. Trapped in his self inflicted prison until his kids get older. If his marriage was awesome, he would be looking for love and sex elsewhere. [/quote]

Oy vey, PP. Please realize this is the version of his life that he is telling you. My DH also told his AP that he was in a miserable marriage blah blah blah. The reality was that we were playful, loving, had a very active sex life, regular date nights, etc.

This is the trademark of cheaters- villianizing their spouse to maximizing minimal discomfort in their marriage to make themselves not feel as guilty. [/quote]

Unless you can read minds, you’ll never know if your DH was miserable or not.

I’m a DW and mostly miserable.  My DH has no clue. [/quote]

Gee.  That sounds like a major communication issue there.  If you are unhappy about something, confront it, voice it and work on it the moment it pops up.  Marriages get into trouble when you expect the spouse to be a mind reader and never give them a chance but already lining up the replacement on the dating apps.[/quote]

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