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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would consider that I have failed as a parent if they wanted a large brood, got a pitbull, or got into debt to get a college degree . But let’s assume that they ended up having triplets after having a single kid. Let’s also assume that they could not reduce the number of multiples due to medical reasons. I think at that time I would suggest that they buy a large home, maybe a multi gen home with everyone pooling their resources. Outsource as much as possible. Childcare at home with a full time nanny. One parent sah, or with wfh hybrid. Live frugally after that. No luxury vacations. In state public colleges, public schools for k-12. Parents and grandparents prioritize health… of their own health, habits and exercise. Loads and loads of insurance. Second hand clothes and everything else. [/quote] You think a multi generational home and a full time nanny is necessary for four kids?[/quote]
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