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[quote=Anonymous]The problem here is a lack of interpersonal skills and a deficiency in emotional intelligence, not the neighborhood. People have varying views about many topics, and one can be friends with people who hold a range of perspectives if one is neither close-minded oneself, nor judgmental, nor holier-than-thou. If people you encounter don't care to discuss politics, or hold views in opposition to yours, why would a mature and aware adult continue to pursue those topics with those people instead of searching for areas of common ground and leaving the political discourse for other times with other, more receptive audiences? It's almost certain that neighbors discussing travel sports and other subjects are trying to make conversation, and I'd bet none could care less whether or not your kids engage in those activities or not. Insecurity about "fitting in" says volumes about you, and nothing about the neighbors you denigrate. For a psychologist, you display an astonishing level of obliviousness. [/quote]
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