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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not gold digging to want to marry someone who can add to the stability you can already provide for yourself. At a certain point if you want to leverage your life and keep a lot of balls in the air it takes two people. Sure I can support myself and my kid on my FT income of $220K but I could have more kids and a higher quality of life for us all if I marry someone who makes the same or more. That’s just common sense. And also, what happens if one of you gets sick or disabled? Or life happens? As PP said, relying on one income is a stool with one leg.[/quote]

OP here. This is my line of thinking as well. I am not a gold digger and I earn good money on my own. [b]I want a partner who earns more than me[/b] to increase our stability, and provide flexibility for me to be the type
of mother I’d like to be. I make no judgements about those who choose to live differently.[/quote]

Hi, that's the definition of a gold digger. If you make $100k, and are looking for someone similar ($65k-$135k or higher) then that's reasonable. If you're making $220k as you're pretty well established (with kids already), then yeah, you can probably find a fellow 40 something with an income of $145k-$286k or higher.

But if you're setting your income as a floor? Gold digger. [/quote]

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