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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your DH actively wants to spend Christmas with them and you don’t celebrate Christmas, it is pretty mean-spirited of you  to actively try to prevent it. After all, it is just another day to you. I mean, he said he wishes to see them on Christmas, and your kids don’t mind it. What is your problem?[/quote]

She literally said in the OP what her problem is…. There’s nothing mean spirited about wanting to spend time with your immediate family or go on vacation. Yeesh people. [/quote]

OP didn't say she wants to spend time with her own family, just that she wants to go on vacation instead. Yeeesh, pp.[/quote]

No. She said she enjoyed Christmas at home with her kids. If she hadn’t said she wasn’t Christian/didn’t care about Christmas and just said she wanted to celebrate Christmas at home with her nuclear family, none of you would have a problem with it.  Instead people are calling her all kinds of awful names for no reason. [/quote]

But she doesn’t celebrate Christmas.[/quote]

Right, but SHE doesn’t. The least she can do is stay out of their way and not try to thwart Christmas plans with family just because the holiday does not mean anything to her.

Obviously, they do celebrate Christmas. [/quote][/quote]

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