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Reply to "Sad that DH and I will be regulated to the "after holiday" holiday celebrations."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, 2 things: 1) you and your DH were *relegated* to the after holiday celebrations not regulated 2) be a gracious, welcoming, loving, fun, non-judgmental mom/MIL and your adult kids and their significant others will want to spend time w you. I’m a woman married to a man and we are closer with my in laws than w my own parents and are more likely to spend holidays w my in laws than my own parents because my in laws are fun to be with, don’t ever demand or expect us to do things a certain way, are very easy going and laid back, and are very gracious and generous hosts whenever we visit. My parents on the other hand are difficult, demanding, and not as good at hosting and therefore it’s not as fun visiting them. Especially now that we have kids of our own, we prefer to spend holidays with my in laws because they make it a lot more fun and relaxing. Be like that and your adult kids and their spouses will want to be with you.[/quote]
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