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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]State mandated levels of child support are very low compared to what it really takes to raise a child. Think bare minimum in terms of food, housing, etc.  Also, divorced parent is not legally obligated to pay for tutors, out of network medical care, private school or college nor, in many states, any child support beyond age 18. (Although DC mandates child support until age 21).[/quote]

This is absolutely not true.  The issue is the lifestyle you enjoyed being married.  Usually, medical care is split or paid for by one parent and if kids are in private, if the parent can afford it, it's ordered.  No one should be ordered to pay for college.

However, at that income OP would get alimony, the issue is if it is life long and 1/2 of everything except if its hidden.

[b]If you have a scummy spouse that would hide money and cheat on you, get out now before its too late.[/B]

I am a SAH.  I could see how my husband treated his ex and knew what type of person he was so I wasn't worried at all.  He makes sure to max out my retirement, and got life insurance in case something happened, and has planned for us, just in case (hopefully there will never be a just in case).[/quote]

You can’t know this until you are going through the divorce. Women are frequently blindsided. It is so incredibly common.

Also for you personally, you are already at much higher risk because your spouse has already been divorced once. Did he cheat with you? That makes the risk even higher.

I am supportive of being a SAHM (I was one) but being a SAHM in a marriage where the spouse already divorced once is more risk than I would be willing to take on. [/quote]

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