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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So what are YOU going to do, OP? Huh? So far, gossiping on the internet and woe-is-me isn’t getting anything done. What are you ACTUALLY willing to do, besides judge and shrug? Tell us what you’re willing to do—talk to your husband, call a family meeting, care for MIL one weekend a season, what? Huh? What are you willing to do? Let’s start there. [/quote] No. It's not OP's responsibility. And if anything she'll be perceived as an interfering interloper. Leave it to the blood family and let the married couples navigate their relationships. If OP's husband asks her to do something, or wants to do something, that is what OP can chime in on. If he asks her for an opinion, she can give it. But really she needs to MYOB.[/quote] OK cool, it’s not OP’s responsibility. So she can continue to shrug and judge. But then she can stay off DCUM with her faux “who should help” because IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT DCUM THINKS, now does it?[/quote]
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