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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The more attractive a man is, the more successful a man is, the more his options increase, and I like that I am really attracted to my DH but not necessarily everyone else is.

I know a really tall, attractive man who is constantly hit on my women. A friend feels sorry for his wife because that's a lot of women to fend off, and sometimes she actively has to![/quote]

Yep.  My husband has had women chasing him hard since I met him when he was 25.  He appeals to women of all ages…still at 51.

I have always been equivalent in looks, fitness, intelligence career- [/b]but women are ruthless.  Men seem to respect the ring on a finger more than the women that see it as a “challenge”.

It can be exhausting. And if you lose trust over time…awful.[/quote][b]

This is the raw unadorned truth. Internalized sexism and a desperate clawing at limited resources.  The more competitive women become over promotions and seats in political office the better it will be for our daughters.[/quote]

NP here who hit the last page of this thread and saw this post. My DH is similar and it’s been something we’ve always joked about and dealt with on our terms throughout our 22 year marriage. But I’m starting to think the pressure is becoming worse for him now that he’s hit 50 and it’s become a constant fight for him to battle these crazy younger women on business trips. Just fighting  the wolves makes him exhausted. BTW, I trust him implicitly and we both have been aware of this fight for awhile…even amongst our friends prior to marriage.[/quote]

Awww. You’re poor husband.  How exhausting it must be to battle allllll of those younger woman.  Cry me a river, lady.  [/quote]

* your  DP, but I think you’re missing the nuance here in your rush to throw out tired idioms. Handsome, successful MARRIED men are aggressively pursued by young women- in hopes that a hook- up will blossom into a relationship, then marriage. They are trying to mate- poach. [/quote]
And women the same age, as well as older.

I had a few outright tell me they were jealous of me and wanted my husband and life.[/quote]

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