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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your sister is a terrible person. But, we’re lots of other people there? Presumably, they all had a great time. Why are you letting one person ruin all this? And if you are really sobbing over this, you might need to work with a therapist. Most people would be angry or just rolling their eyes, because they already knew their sister was a ridiculous and terrible person.[/quote]

I know, I’m probably really overreacting but I was just really hurt and blind sided that there was such an issue with the time and what was served. Also that I didn’t have enough freezer or fridge space for them (I did) and could they use the oven, but I was using it and why don’t we have two ovens. And who knows what else there was an issue with. If there was a problem with any of it in, I don’t know why there wasn’t a conversation in advance. I picked a later time to give people time with their families and kids in the morning so no one would have to rush or pull kids away from new toys. I remember hating that as a kid and now hating doing that as a mom. So when I’m hosting, I can pick a time that works for us. And also, we were with other family the day before so I really had limited time to get it all together and a couple extra hours would be helpful.

Had I known any of this would be an issue, I would’ve cooked a full meal and had everyone over at noon.[/quote]

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