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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Having one is not a breeze if you wanted two, and can't.  Then you get to parent one with crippling grief.  [/quote]

Please get therapy. You are going to transmit to your child the fact that he/she is [i]not enough[/i] for you and that is going to leave scars. You deserve better and so does your child. [/quote]

PP here.  Working on it.  Parenting *through* the crippling grief is more accurate.  It takes a lot to hide it and manage it and process it so it doesn't leave scars.  It's getting better, but only because it reduced to me to nothing.  Only now can I rebuild.

I was just posting in response to the "one is so easy" posts.  One doesn't = easy breezy.  [/quote]

It will. You need to give it time and focus on what you can control; the benefits of your family size and love you can create. We’re pushing because we’ve been in your shoes. You’ll get there.[/quote]

PP here, thank you.  It helps to not feel so alone.  I am much better than I was in 2021 and most of 2022, so it has to get better.  I am going to hold onto the "love you can create."  Thank you. [/quote]

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