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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m getting divorced. When I tell people this they say, “I’m so sorry.” But honestly, I don’t feel bad. This is the best decision I have made since marrying my STBX. My life is going to be so much more peaceful than it has been in years. No more putting up with narcissistic/borderline abuse. Just want it done. I don’t anyone to feel sorry for me. Why do people say they that? [/quote] People assume you did due diligence and picked a good partner, both worked on partnership and were happy (may be you actually looked or pretended happy), divorce usually stems from unhappiness and conflicts, decision and process of divorcing is complex, most people feel sad about failure of the relationship even if it doesn't work out. Its usually emotionally difficult for families as well, specially your kids and parents. That being said, may be one should give best wishes for future, instead of giving sympathy for what's done and over.[/quote]
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