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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP if you won’t leave then why tell him you know? Serves zero purpose and he might leave you once he knows you know Actually high percentage he will leave you first[/quote] How on earth could people live with someone and not discuss this with them?!? I couldn't remotely have an authentic relationship with someone from whom I was keeping a secret like this. (Obviously the husband has no problem with it, since he's been hiding the secret of his cheating, but I don't understand that side of things, either).[/quote] They compartmentalize. That’s what the husband is doing, right?[/quote] Compartmentalization to this degree precludes the possibility of an authentic relationship. Chronically hiding a huge part of your life is the antithesis of authenticity. [/quote]
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