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[quote=Anonymous]Op, i love a man who is not monogamous. I don’t want to/can’t build a life with him but I do love him. You may be able to continue to love your husband but building a life with someone who is not truthful is a whole other bag of worms. You need to separate the two—human complexity, your history, your love for one another, from the very tangible aspects of building a life, raising children, and growing as an individual. I don’t see how cheating and lying are compatible with the second set of tasks. Either he comes fully clean and you decide together whether to continue (and he has to fully face himself and be realistic about what he can and cannot promise), or you live a sham life by staying. [/quote]
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