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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH has reached a milestone in personal and career, and I am throwing him a celebration. It's also happily snowballed into somewhat of a family and college reunion, as many of us have not seen each other in years due to covid and life.
DH had been fishing hinting for a long time that he wanted to celebrate these things in a more formal way, but did not want to plan it.
So, I took the hint and "volunteered" to host something. The event will be larger than expected, with many more people rsvp-ing yes than I expected.
We have young kids.
I asked DH  if he would be willing to handle one aspect that I've found frustrating and out of my wheelhouse. He agreed.
He is handling it.
However, he just said to me that I need to make a plan for the kids and other logistics, because he intends to be a guest of honor, not a cohost or coordinator.
"it's increasingly foreseeable that Im going to spend the weekend doing a lot more than sitting around enjoying my friends and family."
And that he "wants to be the last person I ask for help, not the only person."

I am so turned off by this, I almost regret going to such lengths to celebrate him.
I had to bite my tongue from saying, You ungrateful POS.
Just because I've planned something for you does not mean you get to remove parent from your bio.
If this is the thanks I get for planning something for you, that you basically asked for, then this is the first and the last time.

I'm hurt and needed to vent.[/quote]

What's the total HHI and how much of that do you bring in, op?[/quote]

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