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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP we present like a cis hetero couple but we're not so I'm queer[/quote]

What does that mean? [/quote]

DP. A bi person (or two) in an opposite sex marriage will present that way. I know at least one family with a trans man married to a cis woman, where if you don't know he's trans (and I didn't the first time I met him), they look like a cis hetero couple but aren't.[/quote]

I guess I’m struggling to understand how bisexuals in a hetero marriage means anything. I mean, if you’re in a monogamous marriage, who cares that you were bisexual before. Now you are in a hetero marriage.

The people I know who identify as queer never refer to themselves as gay or lesbian, but they have same-sex partners. They also tend to present themselves in terms of hair/fashion, etc. in a way that doesn’t align with stereotypes related to their gender. More directly: they proudly put forth their queer identity in various ways.

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A person didn't cease to be bisexual because they're monogamous and in a relationship with a person of the opposite gender. That's not what the identity is about, it's about who you're attracted to, sexually/romantically. That doesn't change because you're married.[/quote]

But it doesn’t matter once you’re married. So why would you need to broadcast it to anyone once you are married? [/quote]
Why doesn’t it matter? It’s still who they are. [/quote]

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