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Reply to "Do you ever regret not marrying for the "lifestyle"?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a lower standard of living that I grew up with. My parents were medical professionals in the midwest and were affluent. My home life was also horrific. I moved out here for a low paying job but I had a great friend network and I loved what I did. It was really healing for me. I married a guy who is the opposite of my father. My DH is emotionally available, kind, loving and I'm his favorite person. I feel the same about him. DH is also under-employed, has ADHD and, by DCUM standards, isn't worthy. Yet, I'd much rather have my 'poors' lifestyle than the affluent lifestyle I grew up with. My life is rich in the things that matter. And, if I wanted that affluent lifestyle, I wouldn't expect to obtain in through marriage. If I want it, I'll earn it. [/quote] +1 YES![/quote]
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