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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sheesh! They are Christmas presents. If a parent wants to treat their kid to something within their budget range, why shouldn't they?

My almost 13 yo bookworm is not on social media and hasn't asked for any of these things, but if she did, I would get them for her.

I somewhat wish she was into these things. It would make my shopping easier.[/quote]

I understand what you’re saying, but I also think that this post encapsulates everything that’s wrong with the grotesque consumerist juggernaut that is modern Christmas.[/quote]

So just as an example, what do you get your teen? I really want to understand.

Personally I find getting Uggs and a random Lululemon top no different than the kids who get game consoles or other expensive toys.  Clothing gets worn. A lot.  [/quote]

Mine’s not into brand name clothes or electronics. She’s into art, music, thrift store clothing. She’ll get records and arts supplies for the most part. And I’m not trying to sound holier-than-though, really. I get swept up in the craziness sometimes, too. It’s just the idea that kids who already have everything deserve even more just because we can afford it and just because the internet made them want it. And then calling it the “magic of Christmas.” (Not you, a different poster.) I struggle with this time of year.[/quote]

I'm the PP with the "Sheesh" comment so not the one you are responding to.

But we can only work to create a real Christmas in our own homes, full of more than just presents I hope. This thread when viewed in entirety can make you think that all teens just are materialistic with the case of the gimmes. But I've met more than enough parents to realize that behind any Dior Lip oil or Taylor Swift tix is a real child, one that may not be as materialistic as they seem just from their shopping list.

What are they doing in their environment? Are they contributing in effort and in other ways to their school, their peers, their family and community?
For many on this list, I suspect the answer is yes, but then again the title of this thread is what is your DD getting for Christmas.

And for kids being influenced by social media, yes they probably are. Hopefully their parents are on top of that, but teens have historically been into trends. That's one way for them to fit in while they may be seeking their identity at a vulnerable time. 
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