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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm never the one to say jump to divorce, but honestly...you need to leave him. At least separate and see what it's like. You don't need two kids to raise. I cannot even imagine how frustrating this must be for you. Your son is young enough that he won't remember. You deserve a partner who wants to be a dad.[/quote]

This is bad advice because she is likely going to have to share custody and she’s not gonna be able to trust him with the baby. It is very difficult for mothers to get full custody now.[/quote]

It doesn't sound like he will be remotely interested in his half of custody. When the baby is 2 or 3, he will become even less interested. OP and her child deserve a caring and involved husband/father and right now they don't have one. OP has nothing to lose by leaving and everything to gain. [/quote]

I thought that… but many do suddenly want custody because they don’t wanna pay a lot of child support. You have to pay a lot if the woman has full custody, and a lot of men will take half custody just because they don’t wanna pay that money. Ask me how I know [/quote]

But will OP want him to have half custody when he's so checked out? She might as well stay married so she can properly parent the child full time. [/quote]

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