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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think this is normal or acceptable. Even if DH wasn't a "baby person," he should recognize that it's his kid and his responsibility to take care of at least part of the time. It may just not be as enjoyable as it would be with a 10 year old. But that's what he signed up for. Also, even if he becomes a better parent when your kid is older, will you ever get over the resentment of him totally checking out when your son was a baby? I wouldn't. I think you have one of two options - 1) separate 2) Behave as if you're separated without formally doing it. Plan your own life, make your own friends, live your life how you want and stop expecting your DH to participate. Don't take him into consideration. Don't want to see your in-laws for Christmas? Great. No need to. Either way, something needs to change. This is unsustainable and he doesn't get to cosplay daddy the five minutes a week that its convenient for him. [/quote]
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