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[quote=Anonymous]	How nasty, op. He married you, so even if you are one of those people who someone would look at and think “I don’t know how he puts up with her”, he did marry so he has to treat you well.. either that or divorce. As I told my husband once”they don’t have to like me, but you do, or you need to tell me so we can end the marriage”. I meant it too.. your spouse is the only person who has to like you… either that or not remain married.

I’m sorry you put up with this. I agree totally with the person who told you to tell your spouse that you agreed to it because that’s what he wanted, you changed your mind and you are no longer agreeing with it. 
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also think there are a bunch of meanies on here telling you to “get over it” “find other things to do” and the like, the fact is, they all have the option to go to their spouses’ events, or more correctly perhaps, they are not told explicitly by their spouse they are not wanted. This sort of thing is heartbreaking, way worse then a boyfriend.. it’s easy enough to get another one of those, and way more painful then exclusion by other women, at least you can go hang out with other women, there’s not much you can do with a spouse who doesn’t want you around yet still expects to be married.  No way would I put up with this, divorce is as easy as it’s ever been, if your spouse doesn’t like you (and I do mean like) he can end the marriage. The days are gone where anybody has to put up with anybody else.

I’d also be looking for an affair or that he may be in some kind of trouble at work. I’m sorry, op. You didn’t get to go to a party which turned out to be the last fun one for awhile and you had to ride out the pandemic with someone who treats you so poorly… and people wonder why domestic tension has gone up.  I say this tongue in cheek, but really op, I don’t know how you put up with this for as long as you did.  
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