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[quote=Anonymous]People live in filthy hoarder homes. They are incapable of hosting anybody. Also, while they may not be broke, they cannot spend on food for other people because they were raised by hyenas. They just do not know how to host people. When they do host people they feed them expired food from their freezer. People are just culturally selfish here. In short, if you have some kind of dysfunction in your family - toxic family, dirty house, lack of funds, lack of good manners, laziness, mental illness, disease, financial woes, a self-centered culture - you just cannot host. There is no way these people can reciprocate. My advice to you is that you should not expect reciprocation at all. Call different kids for playdates, create memory for your own children and then do everything possible to give the tools to your own children that they do not turn out like their friends parents. Remember, the kids of the parents who do not reciprocate, never learn how to become good hosts when they grow up. They do not learn social skills. However, there is no need to bad mouth them IRL. You can certainly vent on an anonymous forum. BTW, the kids grow up and figure out that they were not calling people over to their house for playdates and they were quite weird. [/quote]
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