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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the major issue isn't even the prayer or religion. It's creating secrecy and hiding it. That is a massive red flag to me.

I don't tolerate adults telling my children to keep secrets from me as a standing policy. I've seen way too many times incredibly inappropriate behavior -- even abusive behavior -- attempted to be covered up by telling the child to keep it a secret. It's a hard no and basically would make me never, ever leave my child alone with that person. Even if it was my own mother, fwiw.

The bigger point that grooming behavior is premised upon telling children to keep secrets. That is a massive red flag, OP.[/quote]

Exactly. It's one thing for a grandmother to share her faith with her grandkids. It's a completely different thing to do that in secret.[/quote]

+1. Even if grandma ultimately ends up being harmless to OP’s child, this sends the message that adults telling you to keep secrets from your parents aren’t doing anything wrong. HUGE red flag.

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