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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know a wonderful woman who falls into this category. I’ve thought about why it never happened for her. The only things I can come up with is that she’s average looking, at best (although she is always very well put together) and too earnest. She doted on those men she did date to the point that I think they felt smothered. And maybe she was not good in bed? I hate saying that but on the surface it’s baffling why it never happened for her.[/quote]

Everyone brushed this off but sometimes the woman is just not a catch. Yes, women pick and choose but men are allowed to be picky too.[/quote]

There is a woman I know that lied and manipulated her way into getting married. She was not in love but wanted to have a kid and be taken care of and the guy she targeted was a catch on paper. They lasted a few years and have a kid but are now divorced b/c the facade the woman put on in the beginning was not sustainable long-term. She was a fake catch.[/quote]

I know a woman who did this -- just adopted a new personality and carefully edited her life story in order to land a man that she targeted specifically for this purpose (she knew of him through other people but was not introduced to him through them -- she tracked him down through a dating app which was the first of several manipulative behaviors she engaged in). They married and had a kid and are still married, but it's only been about 5 years and she's very reliant on him financially at the moment. I'm curious to see what happens with it.

One thing I've contemplated is that in pretending to be the woman she correctly thought this guy would want to marry, she just kind of became that woman? If so, neat trick. She used to be incredibly vain, self-centered, mean spirited, and manipulative. That's not the woman he married though. Maybe she actually changed for the better in order to land the man she wanted, in which case, I guess a good outcome all around.

But we'll see. They say true colors always surface.[/quote]

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