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[quote=Anonymous]Another AA woman here. I’m 40 and never married. The trait I had was not dating with marriage in mind. I had only dated black men. Quite a few of them grew up in single parent households. I happily accepted the rhetoric they didn’t believe in marriage as an institution. I took that instead of honoring my own values. After being dumped quite a few times — the self esteem blows caused me to hit the books and obtain advanced degrees/ professional certifications. All of this to make myself better or marriage material. It never panned out. I consider myself beautiful, warm, smart, in shape, financially savvy and I’m a decent cook. I’ve tried to date the scale and there is either some power struggle ( then over me) or inverse power struggle ( me over them). I have given up. I may be in the wrong city/state. [/quote]
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