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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^it’s so bad that I worry about my infatuation flirting or possibly cheating on his wife with anyone other than me, I don’t even care if my own husband flirts with other people[/quote]

That guy’s poor wife.  Stay out of his marriage.

Stop yourself.  [/quote]
I haven’t started anything, I am not even a blip on his radar. It’s all in my head, it’s torture and I wish I could just stop thinking about him. I haven’t felt like this in so long, it’s exhilarating yet it’s also destroying me.[/quote]

Can't you just habituate by overdoing the thinking? And...self-caring? I don't like that you don't feel good. That's the part that has to stop. [/quote]
I try to focus on his negative qualities, like he seems a little awkward sometimes, or he seems to try too hard or something, to dampen my feelings. It works for a while but then when I see him again the obsessive thoughts come back, I can’t explain it. It’s like ocd. I have a visceral reaction to being in his presence.[/quote]

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