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[quote=Anonymous]I'll answer the question above b/c we were making <100K (one parent back to school) while living in a different HCOL area when we became parents. We used family daycare and a less expensive preschool. Our DC had a wonderful experience all the way through. I wasn't personally impressed with the most expensive daycares / preschools I visited. For infant care, we went with a new small home daycare that was very close to our house and then recruited most of the other parents through a forum similar to this one. We had a great community and set up a babysitting coop among the parents for date nights and similar. For daycare, we went with a place that had older toys, nothing fancy, but super experienced, kind, loving staff who were 100% focused on the kids. The expensive daycare I visited had bored, inexperienced staff who looked at their phones during playtime. We rented a house that had two extra bedrooms and served as a host family for international students studying English in our city. Not for everyone but it brought in an extra 1K per month and most of the kids were self-sufficient after a week. The kids who did spend at a lot of time at home were usually family oriented and helpful. We met really wonderful young people from all over the world. Finally - we did go into the red but not that much and it's been paid off for many years now. Living in a HCOL on less than let's say 200-500K per year without family money is no joke but resilience and creativity can go a long way. [/quote]
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