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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You really need a therapist to help you set boundaries Your parents are NEVER EVER going to be who you want them to be. Mine won’t be either. But I let that nonsense go in my early twenties and can navigate them with fairly low contact. When your parents ask to go on vacation with you, the answer is no. When jerky sister texts that she wants to be on vacation with you, your response should be “this vacation was not intended for the full family.” The only person you should spend time with is your twin sister. And that is assuming she is actually a supportive sister. Tell your mom you are ignoring all Brene Brown texts and that if she cannot drop this, she and your dad will be seeing WV mostly on their own. You are creating some of this drama by not recognizing who people are. Again, get a therapist. [/quote] Sure. Then OP can get butt hurt that her older sister and her parents get along so well without her.[/quote]
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