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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No independent and healthy young adult want to live at home, no matter how much they love their parents. [/quote]

:roll: This is an American WASP cultural phenomenon. Around the world, people live at home and save money to start their married life.  There is nothing good about being poor or financially strapped, especially in this country.  If you can get a financial leg up in life then it sets you up to accumulate wealth.

However, we have to understand that many older Americans cannot afford to keep their kids at home and provide that kind financial help either. They are broke too and barely hanging on. They want their kids earning by 18 and out of the house. They do not have the deep pockets to pay for college, let them live rent free in their home after college etc.

When they do let their adult children live with them they ask for rent and grocery money. This is a function of their financial situation and not the function of being American.   Being American just lets them be a non-supportive parent without ridicule from others.  This is cultural abandonment of their children. [/quote]

If you have so much money, gift a house, instead of letting them stay in their childhood bedroom.[/quote]

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