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[quote=Anonymous]This is not a pushy in laws problem. This is a failure on you and your DH's part to say no and stick to it. "No we won't be going - no need to ask again" "No you don't need to ask again - we've said before we're not going" "Please don't use the kids to try and change our minds - we're not going" "No" It's your reaction. All of the noise about where they live and whether they visit you and all the other "stuff" doesn't matter. You're not going. You say you're not going. All the "it makes me feel" doesn't matter. They are not going to change who they are - but you can change how you respond.[/quote]
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