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[quote=Anonymous]It’s the viewpoint that women should try to be pretty that is problematic. A certain type of man, and some women, seem to have a problem with women who make choices that make them less conventionally attractive. DH used to be like this. He’d say things like - if that women just lost some weight she’d be so pretty. Or - I don’t understand why women who are otherwise pretty gain weight. I’m they just lost weight they’d be hit. Or - remember when Janet Jackson and Jessica Simpson were hot, then they gained all this weight. It’s like a crime to men that they are no longer pleasant to the male gaze. It look me awhile, and with the help of a therapist, to get him to stop viewing and valuing all women for the attractiveness. He didn’t get that some women don’t spend their time trying to be attractive. They have other things in their lives that are more important. Like expressing themselves through their tattoos or purple hair or body building. [/quote]
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