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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The boyfriend has earmarked the specific weekend to go away. Why can’t you simply have a wait and see approach? It’s Columbus Day, not New Year’s Eve or your birthday. If he doesn’t organize anything, you can then decide if this is a dealbreaker. I think you are overreacting before you need to. [/quote] Op needs to book a flight to visit a friend for Columbus Day weekend. Refundable for credit just in case boyfriend comes through with planning a weekend trip. And when he “suddenly” says he got to busy to plan something or go anywhere, OP says she’ll go see her friend as she’s wanted to for a couple years. After all your 3-day weekends are valuable. Then you’ll know he’s all talk and no action. And if he starts arguing with you about Who cares, we can have fun here. No one needs to go away and starts gaslighting OP she can reiterate her values: my time and my 3 day weekends are valuable. [/quote]
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