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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]4 pages in yet nobody has mentioned sexual compatibility[/quote]

That's because it is first on the list of things you shouldn't bother putting on the list.

You are going to be sexually compatible when you're dating and when you first get married - duh, or you won't get married. (If you do, that's on you, and you're so dumb that making checklists isn't going to help you.)

But as we know from reading many, many DCUM posts, sexual compatibility declines over the course of a marriage - often to nothing. There are many different reasons for this, but since it is always the product of feelings, no amount of rational checklist-making or -following is going to avert it.

Just try to imagine a couple married ten years with two kids and the frustrated DH saying, "but honey, according to our premarital checklist, this shouldn't be happening!" That's when she says, "according to the DCUM dead bedroom checklist, you can cheat, divorce me, or deal with it, those are the three options."[/quote]

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